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Insights from the clinic and the home

Written for parents by Dr. Charu Arora (M.O.T.), Senior Occupational Therapist. Practical, honest, medically grounded — no clickbait.

Speech milestones from birth to 5 years — a parent's reference

He's just a late talker" is comforting to hear — and sometimes true. But some speech and language delays are warning signs that catch up will not happen without help. Here are the milestones every Indian parent should know and the specific patterns that mean it's time to see a speech-language pathologist.

27 things every child should be able to do by age 12 — the practical checklist

We spend a decade teaching children maths, science, and history — and often send them into adolescence unable to make a cup of tea, count change, or handle disappointment. Here is a practical checklist of the 27 life skills that actually matter by age 12.

How to choose a therapist for your child — a parent's practical guide

In India, finding the right therapist for your child is often harder than the referral itself. Here's how to tell qualified from unqualified, what questions to ask, and what red flags mean you should walk away.

Sensory processing — beyond the label, what parents actually need to know

Sensory processing disorder" is one of the most confusing labels in child development — some experts say it exists as its own diagnosis, others don't. Here's what the evidence actually shows, what children with sensory difficulties look like, and what really helps.

Anxiety in children — the physical signs parents keep missing

A child with anxiety rarely walks in saying "I feel anxious." They walk in with stomach aches, headaches, sleep problems, or a strange new fear. Here are the physical signs of child anxiety that most Indian parents attribute to something else — and what actually helps.

Autism in girls — why it gets missed for years, and what to look for

For every four boys diagnosed with autism, roughly one girl is. Research suggests the real ratio is much closer to even — girls just present differently, mask more, and get missed. Here's what actually looks like autism in an Indian daughter.

When your child's handwriting is a problem — is it laziness, or something more?

Poor handwriting is one of the most common school complaints in Indian classrooms — and one of the most misunderstood. Here's how to tell whether your child needs practice, patience, or a proper evaluation.

When your child won't eat — picky eating vs a real feeding problem

Most toddlers refuse foods at some point — it's a phase. But a smaller group of children have a real feeding difficulty that no amount of "just try one bite" will fix. Here's how to tell which is which, and what actually helps.

Bedtime battles — a sleep guide for Indian families

Why your child fights sleep, how much they actually need, and the small changes that fix most bedtime problems inside two weeks. Written for Indian homes where late dinners, joint families, and school pressure make consistency hard.

Toddler tantrums — what's normal, what isn't, and what your child is really telling you

A tantrum is a language a child speaks before they have words. Here's how to read it — when it's ordinary development, when it's a signal to pay closer attention, and what actually helps in the moment.

Screen time by age — a working guide for Indian parents

The guidelines everyone quotes, what the science actually says, and the small home habits that matter more than the total number of minutes. Written for Indian families juggling grandparents, smartphones, and long working days.

Why are ADHD and autism rates rising — and what parents keep getting wrong

The numbers are real. The reasons are less dramatic than headlines suggest. And the mistakes most parents make have almost nothing to do with vaccines or diet, and everything to do with delay and denial.

Signs your child may need an ADHD evaluation

A calm, clinical look at what ADHD looks like in Indian children — and when a parent's normal worry should become a proper evaluation.

Speech and language milestones — what's normal, when to worry

A month-by-month guide to what your child should be saying at each age, and the red flags that mean it's time to ask a specialist.

How your stress is quietly shaping your child's behaviour

Twenty years of working with families in occupational therapy has taught me a simple truth — a child's behaviour is often a mirror of the emotional temperature at home. Here is what the science says, and what you can do this week.